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Dad, isn't that more like dating or hanging out than working?

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Never Eat Alone—Why Relationships Are Your Most Valuable Asset

"Dad, isn't that more like dating or hanging out than working?"

My 15-year-old daughter, Brooke, caught me off guard during dinner last night. I shared some highlights of my week. I had two dinners with entrepreneurs, three lunches, several coffee meetings, and even a 'business walk."

She's right; it sounded more like hangouts than work.

Maybe that's precisely how it should be.

How Networking Has Evolved (for the Better)

The way we build business relationships today has changed. Do you recall those busy networking events? Everyone rushed to share their business cards or cocktail party quick chats. Thankfully, that era is dead. Post-COVID with way less in-office or even companies having an office the meeting place has moved.

Now, relationships develop through deeper, more intentional conversations. Longer coffees, longer lunches, or casual walks help us understand a person’s ideas, challenges, and goals.

These aren’t meetings—they’re conversations.

"Great business is less transactional and more relational. Curiosity and genuine connection open doors."

Every interaction builds your brand.

Here's why this matters: whether you realize it or not, you're always selling yourself. Your reliability, follow-up, and punctuality show how you’ll behave in business. Even quick replies to emails or texts matter.

This week, we evaluated a new vendor. Technically, they scored highest. But their CEO and sales team repeatedly missed their own deadlines. Their slow responses didn't inspire confidence. If that’s how they handle new business, how would things go after they sign us?

Every interaction counts. First impressions—and second ones—can make or break opportunities.

"Small actions leave big impressions. You're building your reputation with every interaction."

The “Never Eat Alone” mindset

One of my favorite books is Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi. It reminds us that our best asset is relationships. Every lunch, coffee, or quick walk can teach you something new. They can spark ideas or help you reconnect with someone important.

This past week, I learned something from every conversation. I talked to an entrepreneur starting a business in a new market. I also reconnected with someone I hadn't seen in years. It reminded me of one essential truth:

"Spend time with interesting people, and you'll always learn."

Final Thought:

It's easy to dismiss casual chats as "just hanging out." However, they can be some of your best investments. Every great partnership or idea starts with an authentic conversation.

Never underestimate the power of relationships.

Keep building, keep learning, and never eat alone.

Grok-3 is changing real-time sentiment analysis.

If you haven’t checked out Grok-3 yet, it’s impressive. I've used Perplexity a lot for real-time info. But now, Grok-3 is quickly becoming my top choice for real-time and controversial news. Grok-3 is different from regular searches. It doesn’t just give simple facts. Instead, it offers quick and balanced sentiment analysis on complex topics in real-time. It feels thorough and current. It’s handy when you want info about something happening now.

Here's a quick look at Grok-3 analyzing sentiment about its own release.

I've started to do more long form podcasts/interviews. First couple out this week and linked below.

-kevin


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Kevin Henrikson

Kevin Henrikson

Kevin Henrikson leads engineering for Microsoft Outlook iOS/Android. Previously, he co-founded Acompli and ran engineering prior to an acquisition by Microsoft in 2014 for $200M. Before Acompli, he was an Entrepreneur-in-Residence for Redpoint Ventures, a venture capital firm for early stage technology companies.

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